martes, 21 de agosto de 2012

Infidelity and masturbation


Children feel guilty when masturbating, thinking the mother interprets it as an infidelity.

Humans are born long before they are ready to stand on our own, that is, under normal conditions, are born prematurely, we are very dependent for years, we need to be loved because if we want, if we leave, literally die.

To reassure poverty amidst such vital, we feel our mother helps us, feeds us, shelters, pet, speaks with sounds that indicate satisfaction, pleasure, enjoyment.

In other words, is likely to feel so helpless anguish, decrease when we realize that Mom enjoys our company, higienizándonos, feeding.

Our peace comes from knowing we (imagine) object of desire, pleasure, that we need.

In the first attempts to control the environment, we feel that we probably saved while we enjoy it.

But the drama falls on our tender humanity when another brother appears that attracts more than we do, or when it starts to work and leaves us in the company of strangers, or when we embraced with this man who claims to be our father.

In these circumstances I have no qualms about exaggerating wildly: I dread to think how you will feel when that child suffers first losses.

If adults buy food for ten days each time a holiday is coming 24 hours, what someone feel so vulnerable when enemies appear, thieves, usurpers, invaders (brother, father)!

By giving us so desperately seeking some kind of solace autogenerated.

In this attack of anxiety and loneliness we often discover masturbation.

The masturbatory pleasure is also worthy to be exaggerated because it is wonderful, especially in that context of abandonment.

But there is good that comes not bad: thinking that mom suffer construed as infidelity.

Note: Original in Spanish (without translation by Google): La infidelidad y la masturbación

(This is the Article No. 1665)

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