jueves, 30 de agosto de 2012

The maternal ambivalence and disgust for the money



Children who do not know if Mom loves or repudiates its poop, poop repudiate ... and money, which both seem!

To most of us it is hard to live with ambivalence, with double standards, with the "double discourse" of our family, friends, politicians.

Our psyche feels better when things are presented to us in "black and white" in "cute and ugly" into "good and bad".

Doubts cause us discomfort that definitely would want away.

However, the experience seems determined to frustrate. When we have clear ideas about a controversial issue, some will present an argument that we fracture that certainty.

Some people are horrified when they feel that someone says, "yes, but ...", because they know that will threaten their certainties.

When we are young, our mothers are awaiting our performance. Almost no sleep listening to our breath, watching our diet, examine our excrement.

A loud siren is turned on its head if something deviates from expected.

With fecal droppings something very ambivalent, dual, with "double discourse".

They are happy with our first well stools, as if these were something wonderful, ... and they are in the psyche of the mother and a legion of advisers (grandmothers, aunts, pediatricians), because their minds think something like "if your bowel works fine, everything works well inside."

But small, we have no such notion of mental function, know the signs of the desperate ambivalence of our protectors: "my shit like or dislike?" She thinks when I thought the child begin to adapt to this environment "the more uncomfortable than comfortable that I was expelled from the uterus still not sure why."

Many end up repudiating the poo ... and money, it both looks!

Note: Original in Spanish (without translation by Google): La ambivalencia materna y el asco por el dinero

Other mentions of the term 'money = shit':

Los trabajos de mierda
   
(This is the Article No. 1655)

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