Males seeking sexual acceptance of several women because they are naturally polygamous and women seek global acceptance of as many people as possible because they are naturally dependent to be loved, protected, coddled, like a queen bee.
The species 'woman' and the species 'man', are equally lovely, but we get cranky when we intend to operate as if we were of the same species.
This is not a problem unique to homosexuals. Heterosexuals also claim that the opposite sex seems to us, being assured that if your tastes and behaviors differ from ours, we are criticizing, repudiating, judging.
I put it in another topic to be clearer.
If a person likes to eat seafood and the other can not smell, is very human to feel either of the other's being criticized indirectly for not having the same preference.
It often happens that when we ask someone if you like the summer, instead of calmly say no, I prefer cold climates, it adds emphasis to the response that includes, for example, by perspiration disgust, anger against gravity, repulsion against flies.
For many people, the tastes are valuation issues, ethical, sacred.
Many people think (but do not say): "It is good to have my tastes. I like what it is like the best thing a man may prefer. Prefer is not bad people, vicious, of sloppy, the uneducated, of fools. "
It is with this view of things that many men and women fail to understand. They think (but do not say), that "they should be like us" and vice versa.
Note: Original in Spanish (without
translation by Google: Los
gustos éticamente correctos.
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