The child imagined enemy

Conceiving a child to resolve marital fights involves considering the future child unconsciously as an external enemy.

The members of a family can have internal squabbling, but if someone outside the group attacks one of the members, the rest will go to defend it is showing solidarity pleasantly surprising for everyone.

I say otherwise: The members of a family group consisting of a couple with three children may live in a constant fight, some not're spoken for long periods, which are everyday gestures of dislike, but simply one is attacked by someone outside the family to the other lay down his constant enmity and unite to surround and defend family problems and to attack the aggressor.

This sudden, unexpected and wonderful happens because solidarity group cohesion depends on having a common goal important enough to the discomfort of living seem small and go unnoticed for the sake of a higher purpose, that is, defending the group of external attack.

America is at odds with Cuba since the island ruled by a communist regime, but Fidel Castro could not have a better ally than his powerful enemy to subdue the Cuban people enormous sacrifices that could not have been tolerated if not present the threat of the superpower.

For its part, the various rulers of the U.S. have had on Cuban Communist threat grotesque an excellent excuse for Americans to pay more and more taxes to maintain unusually powerful armed forces.

These examples are here to discuss that couples seeking to resolve their fights conceiving a child may not realize that they imagine that child as an external enemy.

Note: Original in Spanish (without translation by Google): El hijo imaginado como enemigo.

 

(Este es el Artículo Nº 1.829)

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