Unable to hear

Some people can not hear (or read), because they need to believe that they know everything and they deserve to be rulers.

The roles of command (officers, directors, leaders) are difficult because human nature discourages us hear every message that we can ignore.

As we are children of rigor, we hear of duty, because we have no choice, for trouble compels us, because of weakness.

a) It is required when we integrate a chain of command in which the superior listening is imposed by regulation;

b) We have no choice but to listen to the message because sometimes some people have told us something interesting, valuable, worthy of being known by us;

c) The distress seeks to be calm in any manner, including with the message that comes from the outside. Being anxious makes us very demanding aid: why desangustiarnos who would listen;

d) We listen because we are vulnerable, and this explains all of the above because, as we feel the pressure of the obligation, "we have no choice" and we become anxious, precisely because we are weak, dependent, insecure.

Conclusion: It is due to our sense of weakness that we can communicate.

From the above conclusion we can deduce that arrogant people have such a hard time listening as if they were playing a role permanently control.

This statement is also valid if we express the opposite: People who have difficulty hearing what others say, are likely to be arrogant.

That arrogance is often accompanied by deafening control fantasies.

Indeed, who can not hear because they think others do not know anything or have interesting things to say, supposed to be a natural leader, is imagined as someone who knows everything, that the ideas of others are wrong and you have every right to command, advise, govern, yet enough votes.

Note: Original in Spanish (without translation by Google): No poder escuchar.

 

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