Although not required lead

The good relations between family seems mandatory but it is not. Love is a cultural claim not always satisfied.

The same situation in different cultures, can be interpreted very differently. What once is something to celebrate in another can cause a sad bereavement.

Many of our problems are provided by the difficulties in the links, so be with our loved ones (parents, siblings, friends), as other members of society (suppliers, officials, professionals).

Some difficulties are perceived as negative in any culture and others may be tolerated or repudiated by who the interpreter.

Is it good or bad that the children get along with parents? In Western culture dominates the preference for social interaction, for love, tolerance, cooperation, hospitality, solidarity among members of a family.

With only 20 fingers per person is not enough to enumerate the number of times it does not.

In general, whenever a child gets along poorly with parents or siblings, there is a strong discomfort.

Regardless of how the Judeo-Christian (predominantly in the West) "says" what feelings we have for our families, the truth is that no conviviality inbreeding but depends on other factors, of which very little is known yet .

This lack of explanation of why we have rewarding links with some people and not with others, gives us the freedom to assume that it is not mandatory that we get along with the family, or, in other words, is a matter of luck that the children feel love for parents, siblings, uncles, grandparents.

Depending on each family's philosophy, some may become embittered by life and others discrepancies.

Note: Original in Spanish (without translation by Google): Llevarnos bien no es obligatorio

(This is the Item No. 1698)

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