A majority do not like knowing that we used, we used. Given these sensations react angrily, with wounded pride, we demand to be respected, we feel indignation.
To a lesser degree, others prefer to point to our capacity, capability, skill, ability, but not so nice to know that we are useful or serve.
In short: we offend others use us and tolerate others recognize that we serve for either task, but we prefer to recognize our worth, intelligence, ability.
Of these semantic nuances, I tend to assume that our satisfaction depends on how far we feel of inert objects (things, equipment, tools, objects), we may share some qualities with animals (ferocity, endurance, gentleness), but we were definitely with those adjectives that make it clear that we belong to the human species, understood as the most valuable species of nature ... according to our own opinion, of course!
The suspicion (distrust if the other values us with justice), is manifested by a vindictive attitude, complaining that demands respect, consideration, attention.
Someone suspicious is particularly sensitive to how others are directed at him, are particularly sensitive to detect any disqualifying adjective, devalue it, calling into question their status as 'human being'.
During our childhood and during our student life, are our elders (parents, teachers) who will guide us whether or not realize the expectations they have for us. His judgments are a guide.
When you finish this first stage of socialization (in adolescence), and not for others because we qualify we each of us who know judge, on the success or failure.
Note: Original in Spanish (without
translation by Google): Nuestra
calificación, en el acierto o en el error.
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