Genuine needs are not discussed

Those who get enough to live decently have no interest in talking about it. Those who talk, just want to talk.

In another article (1) I commented that people who succeed, ie achievers, they get what is necessary to live with dignity, are people who have a "genuine need" to achieve those goals. There are people dreaming, probably not do projects (2), in any case seem to have obsessive traits.

It is not easy for any of us to discriminate between "genuine need" and dream of an ideal target.

We find it easy to know when we have to eat, to sleep, to evacuate the bowel or bladder, but with less specific requirements for identification arises ineptitude.

But you may not even need to make the identify or that we comment out loud so that we are moving towards your satisfaction.

Moreover, if we need to discuss them with someone certainly are not "genuine need" but simple desires, dreams, aspirations, fantasies are depleted only mention.

I mention obsessive traits because the sufferer can not reflect on them or control them: simply repeat unnecessary actions, review what you know already revised routines and rituals meet compulsively.

The 'genuine needs "are not met through projects, simply seek to satisfy hunger meal or a bed to rest, or bathroom to evacuate.

We might therefore anticipate a conclusion: to be successful in life we ​​need so; need our need to earn enough money to be as urgent as feed or sleep.

Those who get enough to live decently have no interest in talking about it. Just as we do not need to talk about eating, sleeping, showering, take shelter or evacuate, do not feel interest to talk about our 'genuine need' because we apply ourselves to meet them directly.

(1) El hambre del triunfador

 

(2) Efectos negativos de la esperanza

 

Note: Original in Spanish (without translation by Google): Las necesidades genuinas no se comentan.

 

(Este es el Artículo Nº 1.928)

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