When we give a gift desvinculándonos other. This heartbreak is to neutralize the other gives us also.
A need is something essential to continue living: air, water, food, shelter, while a wish is something that generates a subjective sensation similar to that which causes a need but, if not satisfied, do not assume existence.
My friends in the Dictionary of the Royal Spanish Academy, used the expression "Irresistible Impulse" to refer to the 'need' (1), while using the term "strongly aspire" to define the verb 'wish' (2).
In another article (3), I commented that the money annihilates the affections that may arise in a transaction, for example, the provider of sexual services is not involved emotionally with your customer because it pays and she charges, or the psychoanalyst engages in the anguish of their patients because they get paid and he charged.
As we see the act of paying and collecting money goes beyond what is generally said, that is, that the worker (prostitute or analyst) need money to live. This review attempts to highlight that need money to control, moderate or annihilate, the emotional effects of their work.
The aim of this article is to point out that gifts are exchanged between people, generating positive sentiment increased that offer but simultaneously generate a decrease of the same feeling.
When we give a gift we are paying, rewarding, gratifying, showing how much we value the recipient.
While we are educated to not read this act like a compensation, it really is.
When the child says, "Mom, I give this house because I owe all that I am 'is canceling a debt.
This decoupling is to neutralize the gifted also gives away.
Note: Original in Spanish (without translation by Google): El intercambio de regalos.
(Este es el Artículo Nº 2.001)