If we understand our feelings and associations, altered by jealousy, perhaps we can love our siblings, maybe we can keep the love of our spouse and maybe we can compete without blindness imposes irrational passion.
While the video that accompanies this article put special emphasis on socialist philosophy, while it difficult to participate in a competitive labor regime, now the main theme will be a little different.
One of the most active motifs in polygamous behavior of our spouse is strongly linked to the competition that we face.
As celamos with our younger siblings homicidal fury, because we feel that they came to steal the love we received from our family, because we perceive that invaded our territory despotically moving us, something similar happens with close friends having our spouse.
Since we are because we need him, perhaps as much as we need our parents when they were younger siblings, makes us very violent to know that other people share your attention, your body, your affection, your dedication. We fail to understand that just as we survive the invasion of younger brothers also we can survive the invasion of other loves of our spouse.
Exactly the same thing happens in the competitive examinations to which we have to face to get a job or earn a promotion in the career ladder.
We feel that this test is an instance in which we have to fight with our brothers to keep the love of our parents or where teneo to fight with our spouse lovers keeper.
The destructive passion is unleashed in our mind responds to a need to defend terminal attack : we have to keep the love of our parents, we have to keep the love of our spouse, we must reach the hierarchy deserve more.
These similarities are not perceived consciously. Therefore, when present, act with unusual uncontrolled. If we understand what happens to our feelings, what unconscious associations mobilize us, we could act more calmly, knowing that if we understand our feelings and associations, we may be able to love our brethren, maybe we can keep the love of our spouse and perhaps we can compete without blindness imposes irrational passion.
Note: Original in Spanish (without translation by Google): Disgusto por la competencia.
(Este es el Artículo Nº 2.161)