Parents mistakenly often feel guilty of the misfortunes of the children, regardless they did not but only obeyed a command of nature that determines the reproductive phenomenon of all living beings.
In diseases of our children tend to have a certain behavior caused by guilt. Parents (especially mothers) believe that the child is sick, that crashed or has a poor performance in school because of her, because she did something wrong.
This is not so.
It's worth repeating : "This is not so".
Parents only meet the natural laws: sexually excited, copulate, fertilize, gestate, give birth, feed, like any other animal.
In the construction of this new being who did nothing were to be responsible. Only responded to imperatives such as sleeping, breathing, eating, digestion residues evacuate instincts.
Neither the father nor the mother are doers of the new being. Are their bodies that act automatically, such as rejection of invading microorganisms digestion occurs heartbeat,.
Overprotection, excessive pampering, inadequate response to disease occur because small is also inadequate interpretation of the facts. If a mother thinks it's her fault that the child is ill with measles or have fever, God knows why, becoming crazy trying to repair the mistake he made.
This is not so: it did not err when she became pregnant, and when you conceived, or any other event that was being used by nature to fulfill a life cycle present in all species.
Believe it or not, she has a very scarce vital role in all the vicissitudes of their children, while recognizing that collaboration that can give these new beings as vulnerable may be good, fair or poor.
In other words, the new specimens have their parents to default by Nature reviewers, though, as we know, are neither necessary nor fully responsible for the fate that will touch them: genetic integration, basic maternal instinct, accidents, band member economic and cultural life of the parents, and that long list of circumstances that seem to reward or punish us throughout life.
Nota: O texto original em espanhol (sem tradução do Google): Los padres no hacen a los hijos.
(Este es el Artículo Nº 2.160)