The advantage of carefully observing the behavior of
others is to realize that we are not as bad as we tend to believe, that always
do the best they can and, in any case, we have difficulty understanding them.
There are people who claim
divine thought, though you might not guess anything but be a little more
observant than most.
In the video I commented how
there are gestures, postures and forms of speech that communicate much more
than we usually grasp.
We are true statements: our
actions are expressed, posture, tone of voice, the chain of words, phonetic
words, silences, hand movements, blinking, what our feet when walking.
There are many stories
bordering with magic, you are told about the powers of observation and
deductive power of some people.
When Freud invented
psychoanalysis, raged the adventures of detective Sherlock Holmes. Would not
surprise me that this researcher fiction, with his shrewd mind, inquisitive,
insightful, very suspicious of the obvious, is impregnated neurons Restless
first psychoanalyst.
In the video I suggest you do
not try to change the spontaneous gestures guided by the desire to achieve
better social outcomes. I never tire of repeating that the proactive slogan
"Will is power" is a real trap for naive or foolish.
There is an avid recipe that
allow them to manipulate others public. It is the vice of getting power either
way. Power is magnetic, exciting, sweet, hypnotic, but almost unreal. 99% of us
who are fascinated with the power they have are fictional characters or real
people that cook their biographies to pretend they do not really have (power).
Leaving aside that desire to
rule over others, it is fun to understand and be understood, just understand.
If this happens, if we all realize why people do the best they can, but most of
the time we do not manage to understand, there we will find our benefit: a
better view of the other individuals of the species.
(Este es el Artículo Nº 2.178)
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